§ about the sitemaster §

commonly, i use the username cactusdying on any site i need to register myself on. if you see that name, it’s probably me. that being said, i prefer to be called just cactus! nicknames like cacter and cact are also accepted, but cactus is still my number one name.
i am not comfortable with telling my age, but do note that my birthday falls on january the 29th. also be aware that i dislike sexual comments that are addressed towards me.
my gender identity is… a mess, let’s just say. however, the best label that fits me is genderfluid, and i use the pronouns she/he/they, a more detailed look can be seen on my pronouns page. if you wish to know the exact details about my identity, please visit this page.
just like my gender identity, my orientation is also quite tricky to explain! currently, i identify myself as bisexual, while also being on the asexual spectrum (specifically orchidsexual) and on the aromantic spectrum (specifically quoiromantic, platoniromantic and cupioromantic). if you wish to know more, please visit the same page as above.
i was born in ukraine, and it is where i spent a lot of my life at! i also have the ability to speak in both russian and ukrainian, and, as you can probably tell, english (though i tend to switch between british and american pronunciations at random, because that’s what “english learned from video games and youtube” does to you).
other things that should be acknowledged when speaking to me:

of course, this is just the basic information! i have a ton of other interests, and shrines dedicated to those that have changed my life the most! i am very insane and autistic about all of them i hope that’s very noticeable.

“wait!”
huh?
“who’s the little guy that shows up all over the site?”
oh, them? yeah that’s me. my sona but like. also not really?

statistically speaking, i don’t have a sona. i just choose to draw my irl self with slight stylistic alterations. but because this is the design i associate myself the most with, i do consider it to be my sona.
sometimes he has short hair when i want to make her look more androgynous/boy-ish, sometimes she has her classic “hair that swoops up”.
of course, she is one of the many, many characters i have created! i don't really talk about them much to people outside of my friends, but, if needed, would be glad to infodump all of their lore to you!